If getting dressed is a problem, why don’t you solve it?
Wearing clothes allows you to show the world the best version of yourself. If your situation is exactly the opposite (your clothes show the “worst” version of yourself), then your wardrobe is doing you a disfavor.
Some women say there are many reasons behind this, money, time, weight, work, family or something else. I say, you don’t “want” to do anything about it. The only reason why we don’t do things that are good for us, is because we don’t want to.
But what can you do when you don’t know where to go, who to ask or how to fix it? You just need to look for help. Learn from someone who knows about this subject (i.e. a friend, a family member, a stylist). Ask a specialist about “your” styling issues. Have a conversation and address your needs; explaining what you do, what you need and asking how to get it.
By not wearing clothes that make you feel good, you are wasting many opportunities that come your way every day. When you wear something that makes you feel powerful, you are unstoppable. You know this because, most likely on the day of your wedding, your graduation or any other special occasion, you have worn something you liked and you have experienced it. It feels like you are sexy, beautiful, intelligent and in control of your destiny ALL at once.
Pic from womenshealthandlifestyles.com
With clothes, you have the possibility of dressing for who you want to be. This also communicates to people that you are successful and provide results. I am not talking about a fake identity or wearing a shield. I am talking about aligning your vision with your current self.
Establish a parallel between what you do and how you look. If you are great at your job, why don’t you look great? That is incoherent. How can you tell clients you sell the best product in the market if you don’t look your best? Let’s be honest, would you believe a financial adviser who tells you he/she can help you manage your money successfully if they look like they can’t even get dressed in the morning? If you have a problem with this, just solve it. Ask how and you will get the answers.
Pic from amyapplebaum.com
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